LADIES, IT’S NOT JUST ENOUGH TO WANT TO MARRY A VISIONARY MAN; CAN YOU COPE WITH THE BURDEN OF HIS PURPOSE???

Many ladies don’t consider the downside of marrying outstanding figures like clergymen, celebrities, and authorities before letting themselves get carried away by the obsession of marrying a man with status. Most ladies crave these sets of men by reason their affluence, forgetting that men with such great power and influence are destined to discharge great responsibilities and will most likely have little or no time for their families; though money won’t be a problem.

Just so you know, men like Bishop Oyedepo, Mark Zuckerberg, and the rest of those “big shots” hardly have time for their wives. It could become frustrating when a wife is starved of her husband’s attention, which is why ladies should carefully consider a man before falling head over hills over his money and status. Sadly, lots of ladies only discover that money isn’t everything when it’s already too late.

A man who is globally relevant might not always give his wife all the attention she needs. In a case like that, what keeps their wives going is their LOVE AND PASSION FOR THE VISION AND MANDATE of their husbands, which brings me to this point; ONLY MARRY A MAN WHOSE VISION YOU CAN CARRY!!! Let’s look at the lives of these great men.

Many celebrities don't spend up to three months in a year with their families. Can you cope with that? As you may know, money can't solve that one. Can you cope when he'll have to be away for months? And even when he’s back, there’s another trip he has to take with immediate effect, can you cope? A lady wrote this;

“God keeps using people to warn me that I have to be careful when it comes to choosing a life partner, as a mistake in that aspect will ruin my purpose. A man might be vision minded, passionate, ambitious, rich, and handsome, and you wish to marry him. But truth is that you may not be able to bear the burden of his mandate. You may not be able to endure it. Do you know what the wives of pastors endure? Do you know what the wives of great icons endure?”

It's not by fantasizing about love from morning till night. If you're thinking of marrying a great man, be ready to pay a great price in marriage. Myles Monroe, when alive, got over 800 invitations to speak in a year. How did he cope? How do you think his wife coped? It was because she was strong enough to bear the burden of her husband's purpose.

It doesn't end at marrying a man with a vision. You must understand that as time goes, that vision will explode and he might not have so much time for you. You need to understand and adjust. This is also why lots of celebrities have issues with marriage. I'm not saying celebrities shouldn't have time for their family in the name of their vision. But believe me, no matter how much they spare, it can't be much like an average man. Some of them hardly sleep sef!!!

So ladies, can you manage a man's greatness? Money won't change anything. Some ladies think when there's money, marriage is better. Lol. Money sure helps. But a lot of women who married rich and great men now want a divorce because they can't cope with the burden of his purpose. So beware!!! It’s not just enough to crave a great man with prospects and vision. The question is; “CAN YOU COPE WITH THE BURDEN OF HIS PURPOSE??”

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